How do all of you block out negative crap. There seems to be a very large amount of it lately where I am...in agility especially...
I would love to hear what others do to help block all the people that feel the need to make others feel bad for their own personal benefit, play mind games etc.
I have no need for them, and my only thought is to just keep to myself and not really speak with anyone...but what fun is THAT? I am social, but every year I find myself being less and less social and just staying under my tent.
I am getting to where there are only a few trials I really enjoy going to. A few trials where people are supportive and want people to succeed. Or if they don't want you to succeed, they keep their mouths shut at least :)
NO I am not saying all people are like this, but a few bad apples really can ruin a trial if they won't go do their own thing and leave people alone.
Yes I know people have their own agendas...and what they are doing with their lives is of no worry to me...but I can have a hard time blocking it out. And well, with 3 weeks away from home, stress, going to a trial to run my baby dog, I need all the help I can get...any and all thoughts are welcome!
2 days ago